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2006 02 22
Discontented Dad More Discontented Than Ever Lashes Out Against Critics and Visits College St.
Wow, you'd think in my last posting I had suggested bulldozing Parkdale, putting all street drug users in solitary for life and erecting a shopping mall in Trinity Bellwoods Park. For those not yet following my adventures, yesterday I noted that I found a crack vial in my backyard and wondered what to do about it. I've now been told by the citizenry to take a tour of an addiction treatment centre (because not wanting a crack vial in your backyard is evidence of a total lack of empathy for those addicted to drugs), and to "wait for the large chain stores to move in" (because not wanting a crack vial in your backyard is tantamount to wanting a shopping a mall across the street from your house, preferably connected by tunnel so you never have to be exposed to the un-suburban). I've also been called a yuppie hypocrite and accused of channeling a Jr. High version of Jane Jacobs. My favourite criticism was an attack on my lament about the difficulty of entering some stores with a stroller: "not every store is going to be child-friendly - the last wave of children in our neighborhood have all grown up and moved on" (because having a kid and trying to move around the city with that kid is yet another example of entitlement and interloping).
Keep bringing it on, oh embittered people of Toronto! But why so angry? The truth is, I'm not the cause of gentrification in Toronto's west side -- I was fine with the neighborhood as it was when I moved into it some ten years ago. Since that time I've met all kinds of great people from all spectrums of life, and have never, ever, found a shattered crack vial in my living space. This is not the norm in what real estate people optimistically call "Beaconsfield Village" nor should it be the norm in any community anywhere.
I suspect we are angry because forces outside our control shape so much of our neighborhood and city destiny. Prpoperty taxes go up, empty-nesters want brand new downtown lofts to move into when they downsize, suburban SUVs jostle for parking in front of your house on their way to a drink at the latest hotspot which just happens to be a few blocks south of you. You didn't ask for any of this, and you have very little control over it.
At the same time, we wonder if we did ask for this. That is, are we by our very existence upsetting the order of things? (We ask as we guiltily ponder the newest tiny grotto bar to open, already tasting that pint of Steam Whistle and hearing those retro hip tunes).
Well, is there a handy chart to determine wether or not you deserve to live in a particular neighborhood and what effect your presence is likely to have on the larger community? Alas, no. We bought our tiny house at a time when it was cheaper than renting. The Portugese family we bought it from wanted to move to the suburbs. Did we displace them and alter the neighborhood? Do we belong? My wife's parents grew up in the downtown westside: we often pass her mom's Grace Street childhood home. We got married in the synagogue on Ulster that, in its more active days, was once regularly frequented by my wife's great-uncle.
Across the street from us another working class family moves to the suburbs. The house is bought by a Portugese guy and his girlfriend. He works in film production, not construction, but he grew up in the neighborhood and wanted to move back in. Does he belong? Next door to me lives a man in his fifties of Scottish descent who was born in the house where he lives. His aunt lives around the corner. Has done for decades. When his mom passed on just after he moved in, the neighbors - many of whom don't speak much english - went door to door with a card.
So yesterday, discontented dad and baby went for a walk, decided to visit the new Starbucks on College and Dovercourt for no particular reason except we were passing it by and hadn't been in there yet and wanted to test it's baby friendly-ness. (Two steps up to the door - impossible to navigate without assistance, which was kindly provided.) Ended up having a talk with a real estate broker on a break. He told me that prices have doubled in the area in the last five years. I couldn't tell if he thought that was a good thing or a bad thing. The truth is, having bought a house before the market's crazy rise, I'm not sure myself.
Hal Niedzviecki
visit my website and check out my books and articles, why don'tcha?
smell it
[email this story] Posted by Hal Niedzviecki on 02/22 at 08:26 AM
  1. Complain, complain, complain. I’m tired of hearing Torontonians, especially anyone associated with Queen Street, complain about gentrification, Starbucks, suburbanites, etc. Get over yourself!! Why can’t you just live your life without having to broadcast every shortcoming to the general population? You live in the city, good on you for choosing the “right” lifestyle. But, lets face it, every inch of the city is not going to be accessible, you’re going to have drugs in your neighbourhood (there are drugs in the suburbs too, but the high school kids are polite enough to do it in their parent’s basement) and yes, Starbucks will show up where there’s a concentration of young urban professionals. Get over it.

    Can we start hearing about some of the positive things that are happening in the city, I’m tired of the complaining and doom and gloom.

    Posted by  on  02/22  at  01:07 PM
  2. Funny, Starbucks was one of the chain restaurants that signed an agreement with the Ontario Human Rights Commission to improve accessibility to its stores.

    Of course, since your blog uses a CAPTCHA, it is not in a position to really discuss accessibility, though you are notably laundering it through the verbal camouflage of child- or stroller-”friendliness.” Also your character encoding is incorrect.

    Posted by Joe Clark  on  02/22  at  05:37 PM
  3. Hal wasn;’t complaining, he was observing. Big difference. And he brings up valid points. We can’t choose who lives in a ‘hood, but we can have a say in how it is developed thourhg neighbourhood studies and community organizing. While I sometimes get annoyed by Hal, his current posts have been engaging and somewhat thought-provoking.

    To the previous poster, Joe Clark: what the hell are you talking about? Get out from in front of your computer and live a little. Slagging a website about accessibility is like complaining that a dog doesn’t produce milk. Take your gripes elsewhere, Mr. Grouch. I’ve seen your posts on other Toronto-based blogs and you do nothing but complain. Add to discussions, not pollute them with your miniscule griping.

    Posted by  on  02/22  at  10:28 PM
  4. For some reason Hal’s seemingly innocent stories about his Toronto neighbourhood has set off a cascade of flaming unseen before on the pages of Reading Toronto. Even web guru Joe Clark has joined in the fray to take a swipe at Hal and Reading Toronto. I’m trying to figure this one out…

    Hal, thanks for your posts and good luck on the book launch!

    Posted by  on  02/23  at  10:15 AM
  5. The Editor is right – a fascinating amount of pent up frustration(?) has been directed at Hal (rightly or wrongly) for his anecdotal musings on living in the neighborhood.

    The majority of it (my posts included) seem to indicate a sensitivity to gentrification and suburbanization of the downtown core. The sanest opinion I’ve heard on the topic to date was in the editorial column of the most recent Parkdale Gleaner (mine was delivered yesterday).

    Relatedly, the Active 18 Association (http://www.active18.org/) will be having a ‘community charette’ at The Gladstone on Sunday, March 5th. I imagine there’ll be many more voices speaking on these topics as well.

    Posted by  on  02/23  at  11:44 AM
  6. Hal, Hal, Hal my previous comment about you touring CAMH wasn’t meant to be an insult. It was more than anything else meant as a suggestion to get to know your neighbourhood better. Also as a journalist, I figured the PR people there would be receptive to your request.

    “I’ve now been told by the citizenry to take a tour of an addiction treatment centre (because not wanting a crack vial in your backyard is evidence of a total lack of empathy for those addicted to drugs).”

    I don’t think you have a lack of empathy for those addicted to drugs. But you certainly have a lack of empathy for those who are forced to hear your terrible impressions of Nickelback lead singer Chad Kroeger.

    Posted by Ron Nurwisah, Boy Reporter  on  02/23  at  12:19 PM
  7. Maybe I’m not qualified to question, not being a parent myself, or in a position to handle strollers except out of streetcar-boarding-and-demounting courtesy, but I’m wondering how much the “stroller problem” is in one’s head. Y’know, letting your stroller conquer you, rather than just going about the Starbucks-entry procedure with an efficient alley-oop oops-a-daisy sleight-of-hand. (Sorta like shovelling snow, or unloading groceries, etc.)

    Again, I don’t know. But just a warning about letting “stroller friendliness” become arbitrary urban dogma. Y’know, just like the hyped-up disability issue that led to the Uptown’s closure, demolition and collapse…

    Posted by Adam Sobolak  on  02/23  at  08:52 PM
  8. I’m going to stay clear of the main debate(s) here. At the risk of going a bit off-topic I have to jump in with more info for Chris:

    There is such a thing as web accessibility. It’s all about making sure that everyone can access the content on a web site (just like physical accessibility is about making sure everyone can access a building). For example, it ensures the blind can use screen reader programs (which read the whole page out loud) and aging baby-boomers with reduced vision can magnify text on the page.

    Lots of info: http://www.w3.org/WAI/intro/accessibility.php

    Posted by Matt  on  02/24  at  02:11 AM
  9. Aspects of Accessibility:

    1. to a parking space in front of or near your home, a permit for which you are paying.

    2. the ‘stroller problem’ is also the ‘wheelchair problem’; in the later case we are talking about rights; accepting that ‘some places are going to be inaccessible’ is a discriminatory attitude and unacceptable.

    3. the fact that many still don’t understand or seem to have any sensitivity to the issues around computer and web accessibility is, I suppose, not surprising even while, at the same time, it is deeply depressing. You use the medium—whether to complain or criticize; learn how to use it properly.

    ...edN

    Posted by Ed Nixon  on  02/24  at  09:27 AM
  10. Like many initiatives on the Internet, Reading Toronto does its best to be accessible to a broad spectrum of computer users. We, like others, run up against time and money constraints when maintaining the site. We are not a government site, we receive no public funding, and exist thanks to contributors – like Hal – who are willing to post their words and images on the site for the benefit of our readers. We’d like to be more accessible. We’d like to do a better job managing the technology too. The truth is we’ve only got so much time and energy to commit to this project. Any donations of time and/or expertise and/or cash are welcome.

    Posted by  on  02/24  at  09:39 AM

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